4 Types of S*x to Avoid, NoMatter How Good it Feels

S-E-X! It may be good for your
heart, great for your mood and
even work wonders on your
skin, but not all types offer the
same benefits.
Sometimes s*x can make a bad
situation worse and leave you
wishing you hadn’t wasted your
good underwear & clean sheets
on a brief fling with s*xual
mediocrity.
Here are the 4 types of s*x to
avoid at all cost.
Break-Up s*x: It may seem
appealing to take one last ride
on that pony for old time’s
sake, but the consequences will
likely outweigh the benefits.
You’re breaking up, which
means something isn’t working.
And even if s*x isn’t the cause
of your break-up, it can
complicate an already delicate
situation. For instance, it’s easy
for your partner to misconstrue
your intentions. When it comes
to break-up s*x, you don’t want
your “It has been a pleasure
doing business with you,” to be
misinterpreted for a “Thank you.
Come again!” Even if you’re the
type who makes your intentions
crystal clear, science still offers
warnings against break-up s*x.
Romantic rejection and
heartbreak trigger the same
parts of the brain associated
with pain, distress and
addiction. It takes time to
reduce these triggers and when
the wound is fresh, you don’t
want to train your body to link
s*x with these conditions.
Drunk s*x: A few drinks may
loosen you up and help you to
shed your inhibitions, but be
sure to limit how many glasses
you down as you may end up
shedding and downing more
than you bargained for.
“Bottom’s up” may be in good
fun at the bar, but you need to
decide whether you’re open to
letting it take on a whole new
meaning bedside. If you plan on
drinking, bear in mind that
alcohol impairs your judgment.
Booze goggles not only cause
light-of-day regret the following
morning, but also reduce the
likelihood of using condoms
and other safer s*x tools – so
plan ahead. And that liquid
confidence may seemingly
improve your performance on
the dance floor, but it can have
the opposite effect sexually.
Alcohol impacts your body’s
s*xual response and circulation
making erections and lubrication
harder to come by.
Self-Pity s*x (The One Night
Stand): If you’re having a little
pity party for yourself and think
that a one-night stand will
elevate your spirits, you may
want to think again – especially
if you’re a woman. While a one-
time roll in the hay (or nightclub
restroom stall) can be fun for
some, women seem to get the
short end of the stick when it
comes to casual s*x. And the
short sticks aren’t to blame.
Research shows that over half
(54 per cent) of women often
feel disappointed by one-night
stands and report high levels of
regret the morning after. On the
other hand, 80 per cent of men
feel positively about the
experience and say that it helps
them to blow off some steam.
Steam? Is that what they’re
calling it these days? So before
you take the plunge and turn to
casual s*x to lift your spirits, be
sure to consider other ways to
crash the pity party.
Make-Up s*x : Experts are split
on this one and you can decide
for yourself whether make-up
s*x works for you. Some
psychologists believe that it
rewards fighting, drama and
generally bad behaviour. They
suggest that couples are
dealing with intensely negative
emotions and instead of finding
a resolution, they seek an
opposite experience (pleasure)
in s*x. They argue that this type
of s*x isn’t “real intimacy” and
that it can lead to loneliness
and the belief that everything
can be fixed with s*x. What a
world it would be if this were
true!
If you find yourself enticed by
these four types of s*x, you may
want to take a moment to
reconsider. And if you’re still
tempted, at least consider the
laundry!

@nnajioforx

10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry

10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry
1. The Late Night Texter
You know, the guy who only texts you
after midnight. He’s the guy who only
contacts you when he wants
something, or someone to talk to. You
can go weeks without hearing from
this person, only to rarely get a text
full of smiley faces and a message that
reads, “Hey! How are you?” They
aren’t consistent. Don’t fall into the
trap.
2. The Slacker
He’s the guy who has no dreams,
vision, or passion to get up and do
anything. Don’t let his smooth words
trick you into a relationship that will
be full of dull moments and half-
hearted plans.
3. The Liar
Don’t trust a man who is constantly
lying to you. If you continue to ignore
his inconsistencies, he could
eventually do something detrimental to
your relationship.
4. The Flake
This is the guy who calls of dates,
constantly changes plans, and never
shows up when he promises. If you
think this will change once you’re
married, you’re wrong. A flakey man
will never put his woman first.
5. The Cheater
I’m all for grace and second chances,
but the last thing you want is to find
yourself in a marriage with someone
you can’t even trust. I’m a huge
believe that everyone can change, but
please don’t get caught up in the lie
that cheating is just normal part of
life. You deserve better.
6. The Partier
Stay away from him. Although he may
seem as a fun and outgoing, I
guarantee you will be better off with
someone who stays away from
gatherings full of bad mistakes and
regretful decisions. The lifestyle of a
partier never fits well with the
maturity needed in marriage.
7. The Fake
He’s the guy who claims to be one
thing, but in person never steps up to
the plate. Not only is this unfair to
your relationship, but you need to
understand this isn’t going to stop
anytime soon. Look for a man who is
who he claims to be. Fakes can only
pretend for so long.
8. The Hypocrite
He goes back and forth between his
beliefs, standards, and regulations of
life. Most of the time this man will
change things to better suit his
personal life. Don’t expect yourself to
have a thriving relationship with
someone who is constantly hypocritical
in their words and actions.
9. The Flirt
This man loves to flirtatiously chat
with strangers, waiters, and even your
friends. The man you should seek is
one who flirts with you and only you,
no matter the circumstance. That last
thing you want is to be married to
someone who will deliberately flirt
with people in front or you, let alone
behind your back.
10. The Jerk
Simple. Don’t marry a jerk. You
deserve more than that this guy can
offer you. Look for someone who is
kind, generous, selfless, and
chivalrous. That last thing you want is
to be embarrassed about bringing your
man in public, all due to his attitude.
Not to mention, verbal abuse is a
widely spread problem that I don’t
believe any woman should have to
encounter.