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10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry

10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry
1. The Late Night Texter
You know, the guy who only texts you
after midnight. He’s the guy who only
contacts you when he wants
something, or someone to talk to. You
can go weeks without hearing from
this person, only to rarely get a text
full of smiley faces and a message that
reads, “Hey! How are you?” They
aren’t consistent. Don’t fall into the
trap.
2. The Slacker
He’s the guy who has no dreams,
vision, or passion to get up and do
anything. Don’t let his smooth words
trick you into a relationship that will
be full of dull moments and half-
hearted plans.
3. The Liar
Don’t trust a man who is constantly
lying to you. If you continue to ignore
his inconsistencies, he could
eventually do something detrimental to
your relationship.
4. The Flake
This is the guy who calls of dates,
constantly changes plans, and never
shows up when he promises. If you
think this will change once you’re
married, you’re wrong. A flakey man
will never put his woman first.
5. The Cheater
I’m all for grace and second chances,
but the last thing you want is to find
yourself in a marriage with someone
you can’t even trust. I’m a huge
believe that everyone can change, but
please don’t get caught up in the lie
that cheating is just normal part of
life. You deserve better.
6. The Partier
Stay away from him. Although he may
seem as a fun and outgoing, I
guarantee you will be better off with
someone who stays away from
gatherings full of bad mistakes and
regretful decisions. The lifestyle of a
partier never fits well with the
maturity needed in marriage.
7. The Fake
He’s the guy who claims to be one
thing, but in person never steps up to
the plate. Not only is this unfair to
your relationship, but you need to
understand this isn’t going to stop
anytime soon. Look for a man who is
who he claims to be. Fakes can only
pretend for so long.
8. The Hypocrite
He goes back and forth between his
beliefs, standards, and regulations of
life. Most of the time this man will
change things to better suit his
personal life. Don’t expect yourself to
have a thriving relationship with
someone who is constantly hypocritical
in their words and actions.
9. The Flirt
This man loves to flirtatiously chat
with strangers, waiters, and even your
friends. The man you should seek is
one who flirts with you and only you,
no matter the circumstance. That last
thing you want is to be married to
someone who will deliberately flirt
with people in front or you, let alone
behind your back.
10. The Jerk
Simple. Don’t marry a jerk. You
deserve more than that this guy can
offer you. Look for someone who is
kind, generous, selfless, and
chivalrous. That last thing you want is
to be embarrassed about bringing your
man in public, all due to his attitude.
Not to mention, verbal abuse is a
widely spread problem that I don’t
believe any woman should have to
encounter.