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4 Types of S*x to Avoid, NoMatter How Good it Feels

S-E-X! It may be good for your
heart, great for your mood and
even work wonders on your
skin, but not all types offer the
same benefits.
Sometimes s*x can make a bad
situation worse and leave you
wishing you hadn’t wasted your
good underwear & clean sheets
on a brief fling with s*xual
mediocrity.
Here are the 4 types of s*x to
avoid at all cost.
Break-Up s*x: It may seem
appealing to take one last ride
on that pony for old time’s
sake, but the consequences will
likely outweigh the benefits.
You’re breaking up, which
means something isn’t working.
And even if s*x isn’t the cause
of your break-up, it can
complicate an already delicate
situation. For instance, it’s easy
for your partner to misconstrue
your intentions. When it comes
to break-up s*x, you don’t want
your “It has been a pleasure
doing business with you,” to be
misinterpreted for a “Thank you.
Come again!” Even if you’re the
type who makes your intentions
crystal clear, science still offers
warnings against break-up s*x.
Romantic rejection and
heartbreak trigger the same
parts of the brain associated
with pain, distress and
addiction. It takes time to
reduce these triggers and when
the wound is fresh, you don’t
want to train your body to link
s*x with these conditions.
Drunk s*x: A few drinks may
loosen you up and help you to
shed your inhibitions, but be
sure to limit how many glasses
you down as you may end up
shedding and downing more
than you bargained for.
“Bottom’s up” may be in good
fun at the bar, but you need to
decide whether you’re open to
letting it take on a whole new
meaning bedside. If you plan on
drinking, bear in mind that
alcohol impairs your judgment.
Booze goggles not only cause
light-of-day regret the following
morning, but also reduce the
likelihood of using condoms
and other safer s*x tools – so
plan ahead. And that liquid
confidence may seemingly
improve your performance on
the dance floor, but it can have
the opposite effect sexually.
Alcohol impacts your body’s
s*xual response and circulation
making erections and lubrication
harder to come by.
Self-Pity s*x (The One Night
Stand): If you’re having a little
pity party for yourself and think
that a one-night stand will
elevate your spirits, you may
want to think again – especially
if you’re a woman. While a one-
time roll in the hay (or nightclub
restroom stall) can be fun for
some, women seem to get the
short end of the stick when it
comes to casual s*x. And the
short sticks aren’t to blame.
Research shows that over half
(54 per cent) of women often
feel disappointed by one-night
stands and report high levels of
regret the morning after. On the
other hand, 80 per cent of men
feel positively about the
experience and say that it helps
them to blow off some steam.
Steam? Is that what they’re
calling it these days? So before
you take the plunge and turn to
casual s*x to lift your spirits, be
sure to consider other ways to
crash the pity party.
Make-Up s*x : Experts are split
on this one and you can decide
for yourself whether make-up
s*x works for you. Some
psychologists believe that it
rewards fighting, drama and
generally bad behaviour. They
suggest that couples are
dealing with intensely negative
emotions and instead of finding
a resolution, they seek an
opposite experience (pleasure)
in s*x. They argue that this type
of s*x isn’t “real intimacy” and
that it can lead to loneliness
and the belief that everything
can be fixed with s*x. What a
world it would be if this were
true!
If you find yourself enticed by
these four types of s*x, you may
want to take a moment to
reconsider. And if you’re still
tempted, at least consider the
laundry!

@nnajioforx

Low s*x Drive – What May be Causing It And How To Fix It

You try to beat your partner to
bed so that you are sleeping
before he or she hits the hay.
Or, on the flip side, you come
up with reasons to stay up late
so that your partner is zonked
out before you? Of course, there
is the whole, “I have a
headache” scenario, too.
If any of this sounds familiar,
don’t get down. There really
may be legitimate reasons why
your libido is taking a nosedive.
Once you know that, you can
get to work fixing it!
Many women experience a low
s*x drive, according to
relationship experts. We talked
to Dr. Fran Walfish, Psy.D, a
relationship and intimacy expert
and author of The Self-Aware
Parent, as well as Dr. Gino
Tutera, MD, FACOG,OB/GYN, to
find out what some of the
causes are and what you can
do to reignite the spark in the
bedroom.
GETTING TO THE SOURCE
The first thing you need to do is
rule out whether this is a
medical or hormonal problem,
recommends Dr. Walfish. Have
a full exam with your OB/GYN,
including a full-panel blood test
to check your hormone levels.
Dr. Tutera, who specializes in
menopause, specifically points
to testosterone, the hormone
that influences our s*x drive. “If
your testosterone level is low,
your desire to have s*x will be
too.” If your blood test results
reveal this, ask your doctor
about the treatments available to
you.
If your doctor can’t identify a
medical explanation, then ask
yourself whether you’ve always
had a low libido or if there’s
been a sudden or gradual onset,
suggests Dr. Walfish. If your
s*x drive was once generally
higher than it is nowadays, the
chances of getting your libido
back up to that point are
greater. Never having
experienced a higher s*x drive
is more unusual, but definitely
NOT hopeless. No matter which
category you fall under, you still
have some digging to do.
MAKE ROOM FOR MEMORIES
Is your past flooded with
negative messages about
se*uality and/or pleasuring
yourself?
It’s hard to distance yourself
from the messages that
surrounded your formative
years, especially on a topic that
many people have strong views
on. What did your parents,
teachers, or other role models
tell you about s*x? Was it not
talked about? Was it shameful?
Was it natural? Try to
understand how your upbringing
influenced your perception of
s*x. It could be having a more
lasting impact on you than you
think.
Dr. Walfish says she can tell a
lot from her patients by their
reactions to questions about
their s*xual history (e.g. their
bodies become tense or visibly
uncomfortable when s*x is
being discussed). “Some
women don’t know that they’re
allowed to (and supposed to)
enjoy s*x just as much as their
partner does,” says Dr. Walfish.
If this is the case, talking to a
therapist can help you feel more
comfortable with your body and
s*xual activity.
MAYBE YOU’RE JUST NOT THAT
INTO HIM
When your s*x drive is at its
lowest, it can be a sure sign
that you’re with the wrong
partner, according to Dr.
Walfish.
Are the people you’re selecting
for s*xual partners narcissistic,
selfish, or even abusive? This
can take a toll on your self-
esteem, confidence, and the way
you view s*x within your
partnership. For example, if a
man doesn’t make you feel like
you’re special to him, you may
constantly fear that you aren’t
measuring up to his past s*xual
partners—having that on the
brain is a buzz kill for anyone!
Even if your partner makes you
feel good about yourself, he
may just not be addressing your
physical needs. Communicating
what you want in bed is a
difficult thing for many women,
but the rewards are endless.
Talk to someone you trust about
how they communicate
instructions in bed — and take
notes!
STRESS LESS
Dr. Tutera contends that the
primary cause for low libido in
young women, assuming a
hormonal reason has been ruled
out, is stress. It makes sense;
no one is going to have dirty
thoughts running through their
mind if there’s no room
If you think this might be the
cause of your low s*x drive, try
addressing the stress issue first
and separately. As you start de-
stressing methods that work for
you, see how your s*xual
desires change.
“The bottom line is that
everyone has a right to personal
happiness and s*xual pleasure,”
says Dr. Walfish. When it
comes to experiencing low
libido, she emphasizes that
you’re not alone so have no
shame.
Dr. Tutera echoes Walfish’s
sentiments: “Women should
never be embarrassed or scared
of their low s*x drive.” Be
proactive in bettering your s*x
life by talking about it. and making effort in seeing the issue solved.

@nnajioforx

Slang expressions in Igbo Language

Slang expressions are “Terms that are made up or are given new definitions
[by a social group] in order to make the terms novel or conventional [such
that people outside the social group are excluded from the group’s
discussions]” (Harris, 1994). Slang is, therefore, a sociolinguistic
phenomenon. This chapter investigates the Igbo slang expressions used by
members of Otu-Onitsha speech community. Many scholars have attempted
the study of slang use in Igboland (see Anasiudu and Oluikpe, 1983; Oluikpe,
Anasiudu and Ogbonna, 1984; Oluikpe and Ogbonna, 1987; Anasiudu,
1987; Okorji, 1998; Ebede, 2001; Oluikpe and Anasiudu, 2006; Nwoye,
2007). Although a few instances of Igbo slang appear in some of these works,
none gives a detailed examination of Igbo slang expressions frequently used
in an Igbo speech community. It identifies some Igbo slang expressions, their
various users and contexts of usage. As Otu-Onitsha speech community
comprises Igbo speakers from the different dialect areas of Igboland, we
advocate that these slang expressions in use in Otu-Onitsha should
consciously be made to permeate into the various Igbo communities as it is

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Indexed African Journals Online: http://www.ajol.info

VIDEO: Crazy Video Shows at Least 5 Men Violate a Woman in a Shower While Laughing..but the Slut seems to Enjoy It

Its really obvious that women of nowadays are becoming something else how on earth can a woman allows series of men sexually violated her in a bathroom and she laughs it off. Watch d video from the Link below its too Raw for our Company. http://naijauncut.com/2014/04/23/video-crazy-video-shows-at-least-5-men-violate-a-woman-in-a-shower-while-laughing-but-the-slut-seems-to-enjoy-it/

Why Most men cannot help women until they have had sex with them.

Why Most men cannot help women until they have had sex with them..

If your Woman displays this Marry Her

To the guys here…..
Your girl is so stunning, and she has got all the qualities that every man needs in a woman.
Many guys try to hit on her in all possible ways but she doesn’t give in her heart and body to them. Actually some already know that she’s in love with you but they don’t give up on her. She tries to push them away but they insist. They all start as friends and with time they divert and start making passes on her, preaching love to her. They send her messages and call her most of the time.

Sometimes she picks up and sometimes she ignores them. But that doesn’t mean that she loves them and she’s cheating on you.
She’s knows what she wants and it’s you she wants. Just know that some of those guys approached her before you came in her life, but she didn’t give them a chance. She considered you who came later. So just know that she loves you so much and she doesn’t want to lose you.
If you have got a girl of that kind, love & care about her, always give her attention, don’t make her feel lonely, stick around her and never let her go over minor issues, never let arguments tear you apart, say sorry whenever you’re wrong, be with a forgiving heart, respect her, don’t listen to rumours and be proud of her.

Real love isn’t all about the physical,there is more to it.
Real love is having arguments or disagreements and you still hold each other at night, say I love you to each other, call and text each other… Real love puts ego, pride and stubbornness aside for the betterment of the relationship! Real love between two people is what leads to long sustaining happiness and forever relationships, not sex like the way some people think!

Finally!
To everyone out there, “In Reality Perfect Man or Woman don’t exist, but mathematically there’s always one man or woman that is just perfect for you’.

Why Most men cannot help women until they have had sex with them.

Love is not what you put on people’s
head. It is what you put in people’s
hands. How far have you gone to help
someone rise in life or is it just those
emotional words of how much you
care that has no action. The world is
full of men and women who enslave
others in the name of trying to help
them. You use them the way you can
never even use your house dog and
you gladly tell people that without you
that man or woman would have been
starving by now. Are you the lord of
harvest? You are not seeing the grace
God permitted in your life. You are
seeing your own strength. Visit
pharmaceutical shops, you will see
that many people who think they are
rich are plagued with sicknesses. You
buy drugs everyday but the people
you are oppressing don’t. They have
bigger grace to survive you and still
make it tomorrow. Where is the love?
Black Eye Pea sang a song asking the
same question. Most men cannot help
a women until they have had sex with
them. What a wicked world.

10 Women A Man Shouldn’t Marry

1. The Late Night Texter
You know, the girl who only texts you
after midnight. She’s the girl who only
contacts you when she wants
something, or someone to talk to. You
can go weeks without hearing from
this person, only to rarely get a text
full of smiley faces and a message that
reads, “Hey! How are you?” They
aren’t consistent. Don’t fall into the
trap.
2. The Gold-digger
She’s the woman who loves your
wallet, bank account, and credit cards.
Be sure to stay away from a woman
who is only interested in material
things, and how much of these things
your salary can buy her.
3. The Flirt
This woman loves to flirt with
strangers, waiters, and even your
friends. The woman you should seek is
one who flirts with you and only you,
no matter the circumstance. That last
thing you want is to be married to
someone who will deliberately flirt
with people in front or you, let alone
behind your back.
4. The Liar
Don’t trust a woman who is constantly
lying to you. If you continue to ignore
her inconsistencies, she could
eventually do something detrimental to
your relationship.
5. The Flake
This is the woman who calls off dates,
constantly changes plans and never
shows up when she promised she
would. If you think this will change
once you’re married, you’re wrong. A
flakey woman will never put her man
first.
6. The Partier
Stay away from her. Although she may
seem as a fun and outgoing, I
guarantee you will be better off with
someone who stays away from
gatherings full of bad mistakes and
regretful decisions. The lifestyle of a
partier never fits well with the
maturity that is needed in marriage.
7. The Quick To Judge
Everyone is entitled to their own
opinion, but I would encourage you to
stay away from the woman who
constantly throws judgments at
others. This is a bad habit that is not
only frowned upon, but it will also
hinder you from finding any type of
outside friendships. Let Judge Judy
stay a TV show. Don’t marry her.
8. The Immodest Dresser
The last thing you want to do is marry
someone who put’s their body on
display for the rest of the world to see.
Without going into too much detail, I
would encourage you to marry
someone who respects their body
enough to keep it covered and modest.
9. The Negative Nancy
She’s the woman who can find
something negative in just about
anything. And although there is
nothing wrong with being a little
skeptical, living life with someone who
is constantly negative will definitely
put a damper on your relationship. It’s
not worth it.
10. The Cheater
I’m all for grace and second chances,
but the last thing you want is to find
yourself in a marriage with someone
you can’t even trust. I’m a huge
believe that everyone can change, but
please don’t get caught up in the lie
that cheating is just normal part of
life. You deserve better.

10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry

10 Men A Woman Shouldn’t Marry
1. The Late Night Texter
You know, the guy who only texts you
after midnight. He’s the guy who only
contacts you when he wants
something, or someone to talk to. You
can go weeks without hearing from
this person, only to rarely get a text
full of smiley faces and a message that
reads, “Hey! How are you?” They
aren’t consistent. Don’t fall into the
trap.
2. The Slacker
He’s the guy who has no dreams,
vision, or passion to get up and do
anything. Don’t let his smooth words
trick you into a relationship that will
be full of dull moments and half-
hearted plans.
3. The Liar
Don’t trust a man who is constantly
lying to you. If you continue to ignore
his inconsistencies, he could
eventually do something detrimental to
your relationship.
4. The Flake
This is the guy who calls of dates,
constantly changes plans, and never
shows up when he promises. If you
think this will change once you’re
married, you’re wrong. A flakey man
will never put his woman first.
5. The Cheater
I’m all for grace and second chances,
but the last thing you want is to find
yourself in a marriage with someone
you can’t even trust. I’m a huge
believe that everyone can change, but
please don’t get caught up in the lie
that cheating is just normal part of
life. You deserve better.
6. The Partier
Stay away from him. Although he may
seem as a fun and outgoing, I
guarantee you will be better off with
someone who stays away from
gatherings full of bad mistakes and
regretful decisions. The lifestyle of a
partier never fits well with the
maturity needed in marriage.
7. The Fake
He’s the guy who claims to be one
thing, but in person never steps up to
the plate. Not only is this unfair to
your relationship, but you need to
understand this isn’t going to stop
anytime soon. Look for a man who is
who he claims to be. Fakes can only
pretend for so long.
8. The Hypocrite
He goes back and forth between his
beliefs, standards, and regulations of
life. Most of the time this man will
change things to better suit his
personal life. Don’t expect yourself to
have a thriving relationship with
someone who is constantly hypocritical
in their words and actions.
9. The Flirt
This man loves to flirtatiously chat
with strangers, waiters, and even your
friends. The man you should seek is
one who flirts with you and only you,
no matter the circumstance. That last
thing you want is to be married to
someone who will deliberately flirt
with people in front or you, let alone
behind your back.
10. The Jerk
Simple. Don’t marry a jerk. You
deserve more than that this guy can
offer you. Look for someone who is
kind, generous, selfless, and
chivalrous. That last thing you want is
to be embarrassed about bringing your
man in public, all due to his attitude.
Not to mention, verbal abuse is a
widely spread problem that I don’t
believe any woman should have to
encounter.